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 �ͺ�����: Tue Jun 03, 2014 1:26 pm ����ͧ: yuipTxJxIRQP |
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| jen .you misunderstand me, Frankly, it srceas me that you, an apparent midwife, seem to be advocating AGAINST being as educated as possible but that you do seem to advocate putting 100% faith in doctors. I find that absolutely terrifying'what srceas me is women like yourself trying to talk/judge other women who have c section or going to have c section on the advice of their own doctors out of them. thats how i read your post, thats how they come across, like you thin all doctors our out for themsleves and some how you are more informed. we go through all these facts with women, but once more it up to her and its NOT fair to try ad scare women out of it, doctors in the uk work through the nhs so their is no gain in giving c sections here there and every where so we do them because we NEED to, yes doctors make mistake, but they save more lives every day buy making tough calls like c section.at the end of the day jen its not your baby, not your body , not your birth so neither you nor i have no right to tell any one how they should or shouldn't give birth nor try and change their minds if they have already made them up. at the end of the day , i tell women that thy should make up their owns minds take our advice and do their own research and we will fully support them. there have been to many times when i have watched things go badly .because a scared mum wouldn't listen to her doctor because her poor head was filled with terrifying facts, facts shared to her by other mums whith no medical information just thigs they know' to be true its not your call nor mine. as a mums we have a responsibility of knowledge, and its impotant its used its support other women.so lets agree to disagree shall we, btw i no its know i just use short hand ..like a few others on here sorry if that bothers you but at leats its not txt talk.' if u c wht i mean' lol. this was always going to be a hot one, but i think we would all agree we just want mum and baby to come through it ok, thats all that matters |
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